Child/Youth Grief

Below are grief-support resources for school staff, parents, and others
who care for children and youth who sorrow.

Websites

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Coalition to Support Grieving Students

https://grievingstudents.org/

This is simply the best, most informative, and well-researched site available for grief-support resources for school staff.
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National Alliance for Grieving Children

https://childrengrieve.org/

The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) is a nonprofit organization that raises awareness about the needs of children and teens who are grieving a death and provides education and resources for anyone who supports them. 
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National Center for School Crisis and Bereavement

https://www.schoolcrisiscenter.org/

Dedicated to helping schools support their students through crisis and loss.
An amazing compendium of downloadable resources
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Canadian Virtual Hospice

http://kidsgrief.ca/

KidsGrief.ca is a free online resource that helps parents support their children when someone in their life is dying or has died. It equips parents with the words and confidence needed to help children grieve life’s losses in healthy ways.
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Our House Grief Support Center

www.ourhouse-grief.org/grief-pages/

This grief support resource section includes a collection of “Grief Pages” – downloadable PDF grief support resources with information created for all types of grievers, including children, teens and adults. 
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Sage Centre and Rosedale Hospice

https://www.hospicecalgary.ca/grief-groups

An excellent compendium of online resource links for child/youth grief support.


Books: Children's Grief

Book 52

The Forever Dog

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Book 54

Always My Brother

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Book 55

When Dinosaurs Die

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 49

Luna's Red Hat

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 48

Ben's Flying Flowers

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 51

I Will Always Love You

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 31

The Heart and the Bottle

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Available in the HSCD library
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Rafi's Red Racing Car

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Available in HSCD library
Book 36

Leaf

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If I Could Have Been There

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Tear Soup

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Bertolt

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Available in HSCD library
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Where is Robert?

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The Goodbye Book

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Available in HSCD library
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My Grammie is a Star

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The Next Place

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The Invisible String

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Whimsy's Heavy Things

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Available in HSCD library


Books: Teen/Young Adult Grief

Ook 64

The Fault in Our Stars

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 65

Long Way Down

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 66

Everything All at Once

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Available in HSCD Library
Book 67

Looking for Alaska

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Available in HSCD Library

Books: Teacher/Caregiver Resources

Articles

Harvard Child Bereavement Study

PDF
While the instinct is to overprotect, our children are natural mourners. They need a “significant adult” who brings sensitivity, honesty, a sense of inclusion and compassion, and allows children to be their own experts. We can’t take away or “fix” our children’s pain, anger, or fear; but we can support them through their grief process.

Download "Harvard Child Bereavement Study.pdf"

Teen Grief Curriculum

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This curriculum is presented as a work manual for the counselor facilitating adolescent grief groups in a school setting. It is a compilation of activities and handouts that are meant to be used, copied, added to or discarded according to the preferences of the user.

Most simply it is a sample eight-week teen grief group with suggestions for organization of each group meeting. There are introductory sections on setting up and running a group followed by the eight-week curriculum completed by the appendices of activities and handouts.

(c)2000 -2010 Scott Johnson, MA. All Rights Reserved.

Download "teen-grief-curriculum.pdf"

15 Things to Say to Help an Anxious Child Find Calm

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The Impact of Bereavement and Loss on Young People

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A wide-ranging review of the literature on the implications of bereavement for young people's lives.
Many young people have experienced the death of someone close to them – but do we understand the implications of bereavement for young people’s lives? In this study, the authors argue that bereavement is in fact a general – if difficult – part of growing up, and should be recognised as such. For some young people, a major loss may be a source of very significant disruption to their lives.
 

Download "The impact of bereavement and loss on young people.pdf"

Kids Care:
Teacher Resource Package

PDF
A classroom resource for exploring issues of loss and grief in children and families
Created by the Ontario Family Studies Leadership Council
in partnership with Sky Works Charitable Foundation

Download "KidsCareTeacherGuide_FULL.pdf"

General Tips to Support Students of All Ages

PDF
A variety of tools to employ in support of students in the face of a student or teacher death.

Download "General Tips to Support Students of All Ages.pdf"

Concepts of Death by Age Group

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The concept of death from a child’s perspective is very different from
an adult’s understanding of death. Furthermore, as the child grows and
matures, his/her earlier ways of thinking about death will change. It is
essential for the adult to have a sense of how children conceptualize
death at different ages so that when the time comes to talk about death,
whether of a pet or a loved one, the adult can respond in a manner
appropriate to the child’s developmental age.

Download "DeathByAgeGroup.pdf"

How Children Grieve:
Persistent Myths

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It seems both an obvious and unassailable fact that children will suffer, sometimes acutely, from the loss of important figures in their lives; yet it wasn't long ago that such profound sorrow wasn't widely acknowledged. It wasn't until Freud—not Sigmund, but his daughter Anna—shed light on childhood grief that the subject captured the attention and validation of researchers.

Download "How Children Grieve - persistent myths.pdf"