Support via Phone Conversations

The Power of Connecting

Below are resources to strengthen our skill is connecting with clients using a phone.

During Covid, and moving forward post-Covid, keeping isolated clients connected will be an important aspect of their wellness. There are many reasons that a phone call is a useful way to reach out and support someone with a life-limiting illness.

A significant aspect to supporting a client is the gift of conversation, and in particular, drawing out their  story. Bearing witness to their storytelling validates and affirms their life journey. Whether by phone or in person, over a meal, a cup of coffee, or a walk, conversation eases loneliness and creates space for the soul to expand.

Consider the readings and videos below as you engage your Hospice work, as well as your personal village, through the phone lines (or microwave towers).
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In Praise of Phone Calls
by Sarah Larson

During Covid, and indeed, when we return to non-Covid life, supporting clients by phone may be a practical necessity.

Below, author Sarah Larson describes a few dynamics to consider before picking up your phone to make a call.

  • First, find the best equipment you can: ideally, a real phone. A landline is optimal, or a cell phone with decent audio, held right up to your ear.
  • Avoid the diffuse echoey sadness of the speakerphone, the vulnerable voice bouncing around an open room or, God forbid, an open car.
  • Phone calls mean: No screens, no juddering technology or buffering, no contending with the distracting horror of your own disembodied face. Just voice: mind meeting soul meeting timbre.
  • Don’t have a TV on (or any other background noises if possible).
  • Don’t have a laptop in front of you.
  • Sit in a favorite chair and look at your plants and your books. They are beautiful.
  • Look out the window, the trees outside. Listen to your friend.
  • Find a good phone, focus, and be together. On the phone, you’re not performing for a camera, or observing your friend and their house. You’re not typing. You can get to essentials with a different, more human part of your brain

How to Speak Effectively Over the Phone

Healing the Epidemic of Isolation for Senior Citizens

Phone Conversation Exercise

This exercise invites self-reflection on communicating by phone. 
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Tips and Tricks for Successful Phone Calls


Hospice Client-Support Conversation Starters

This list of questions is not meant to create a situation of interrogation or being interviewed. Instead, it is meant to provide guidance in supporting clients in sharing their life story.

Choose a theme from the list (childhood memories for example) and ask your client if they would be comfortable/willing to share stories about that theme. Let them know that you have some questions to help them get started. 

Download "Volunteer-client conversation starters.pdf"

Gathering Hospice Stories

Explore this collection of video stories from some of the people with whom we have journeyed. 
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You have completed the module: Support Via Phone Conversations.

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